Look at those red eyebrows! His eyelashes are red too. And those cheeks – I kiss them as much as possible. The poor kid will probably loath physical contact later in life!
Molly really likes to be in Jake’s monthly pictures. Jake is growing up and becoming more fun. He’s super smiley and has some tickle spots that he’ll giggle like crazy if tickled just right. He likes to be held facing out to see what we’re all up to. I wear him in our front pack as well. As far as a schedule some time there are some days in a row where he’s consistent with napping. However just when I think I’ve got him figured out he changes things up. He likes to watch Molly and take baths with her. I liked how Max and Molly took baths and how she would watch him play. I’m glad that Jake can watch Molly and eventually they’ll play together.
Kelly has no problem falling asleep anywhere – anytime. Maybe that will rub off on Jake by osmosis?
Jake is three-months-old and is getting to be a lot more fun! He’s smiling a ton and laughs quite a bit too! He has slept for five hours in a row once as well!
Above are the birth announcements of Max, Molly and Jake. It is so strange to me that Max and Jake weren’t ever on this earth at the same time. It feels like Jake has always been here even though he’s just two months old. It seems like it was so long ago now that Max was here. And then there is Molly in the middle who has known and loved them both. I don’t know if I’ll ever have the right words to really describe how it feels to have your child die. When Max died Molly was nine months old. It was so hard to try and appreciate and love her while my soul ached for Max. Almost every moment of every day was a struggle to not want to die to to go and see my first baby. I wanted to make sure he was really ok. I wanted to make sure he was happy and that if he got cold someone would make sure he had a coat and help him put it on because he couldn’t do that yet. Little mommy things like that. This very intense time period lasted for what felt like an eternity. I think it was just letting up when March rolled around when I would have been planning Max’s fourth birthday. The thoughts that he wasn’t here to turn four hit me so heavily. Its basically indescribable. Max’s birthday is April 30th and the anniversary of his death is May 8th. Those two dates made for an incredibly sorrowful spring for me. I was also pregnant with Jake during that time period. I was full of a lot of intense and complicated emotions. People can tell you that the first anniversaries of a loved one’s death or their first birthday without them is hard but you have no idea until you live it. In my case all of those people were right. With all of that said right now feels so different from then. With Jake here with Molly I have two kids again which feels SO good. Its like my family is complete and yet it will never be here on earth again. Only with the hope of heaven will I ever be united with all of my children again. Max is still gone but the sadness isn’t as intense as it has been. I am curious how this spring will be. We have plans to get out of town and try to have fun during those hard dates. I might bump up my therapy sessions and Kelly and I will probably start seeing our marriage counselor again sooner rather than later. Well I have dinner to get to so enough of my rambling for now.
Jake was born this past November and will be 10 weeks old tomorrow! He is a wonderful addition to our family. We are all getting used to having a toddler and a baby again.
My friend Jennifer made Jake’s birth announcement just like she made Max and Molly’s. Jen Finch took the photos of Jake like she did with Max and Molly as well.
Jake’s big sister, Molly is very sweet with him and can even put his pacifier back in for him! She likes to give him “a kiss and a snuggle.” When Jake cries Molly is quick to offer suggestions on what he needs such as mommy milk or his pacifier. And Jake loves his paci – woo hoo!
Jake reminds me a bit of his big brother, Max when he was a baby in that he’s kind of cranky and a normal sleeper for an infant. This means he eats every two to four hours (its usually every two though). Molly was the opposite and slept a ton! I looked at Molly’s baby book and saw that she was sleeping through the night at four weeks! I was super spoiled by her.
Some things that make Jake unique so far is his red hair! Jake is also very noisy. He gunts and just makes noises all the time. He’s even been known to snore quite loudly. Unfortunately Jake spits up more than his older siblings.
I am looking forward to finding out more of who Jake is.
Here are some photos that Kelly and I have taken lately.
I don’t know how to make this picture upright. Grrr.
Molly got into some markers the day before this because she wanted, “to decorate me for Christmas!”
Look at those red eye brows! He’s wearing my favorite cozy outfit from Kelly’s great Aunt Patty.
Jake didn’t grab this toy from my friend Hillary. I may have posed him.
Hmm, I think I look a wee bit tired and kinda old… funny how those things start to happen.